what is this project about? who are you?

hello! if you’ve reached this page, it means you’ve probably seen my poster asking you to call and leave a voicemail telling me about your first heartbreak. perhaps an odd request, so let me explain. I’m currently working on an art project about heartbreak. I’m a writer, photographer, artist, and grief worker with a deep love for connection, community, and witnessing the way our stories overlap and weave between each other. listening to others is how I learn about the world, myself, and what really matters in this short life. I would absolutely love for you (whoever you are) to be a part of this project. a few questions and answers below, but please know I’m always here to talk further one on one if you’d like, please feel free to email me at any time.

what should I include in the voicemail? what should I leave out?

tell me the story of your first heartbreak, whatever that might be for you. please do not include identifying details - it’s okay to change names, locations, etc. as you’d like as long as the heart of the story is accurate. do your best to keep it brief, 1 minute is likely a good limit to aim for. it can be helpful to take some notes and practice what you want to say beforehand. share only what you feel comfortable with, there’s no requirement on what details are included.

what are you going to use the audio for?

my current plan / goal is to transfer the audio to cassette tapes that tell each person’s story. I’m planning on submitting the project to an upcoming art show at the fishbowl, an art gallery in seattle, wa. depending on the final product, I might also incorporate the audio into a page on my website or use it for a further project. if you would like to stay updated on what happens with the project, please send me an email and let me know so I can be sure to keep in contact.

who can submit an audio recording?

anyone, of any age, gender, race, religion, ability, etc. you are welcome exactly as you are. that said, I you’re under 18, please make sure your caregiver/parent is okay with you calling in! if you would like to tell your story in a different language, offering an english translation as well is appreciated but not required.

what if I have more questions?

please reach out at any time via email or instagram. happy to answer all and any questions, receive feedback, or even just get to know each other!